Friday, December 26, 2008

Wrapping Up 2008 With A Big Red Bow On Top- Wait, let's make that A Big Blue Bow On Top

It's over. 2008 is gone just about. This may have been the quickest year of my life. So it's time to review some things of note. The problem with blogging is that inspiration usually comes while washing my hair in the shower and is forgotten by the time I'm done. Well I'm still the same old me, yes I did wonder if it was too lewd to mention the shower in my blog. I am thrilled to look out the window and see snow covering the fence and roofs and cars. The extra long Fall was just not right in my opinion. Yeah, it made biking and walking to school a snap but cold and snow are what we are supposed to have and I don't believe in messing with mother nature. What has been accomplished this year? I think it's normal in this culture to try to have a bunch of huge accomplishments to put up on some sort of imaginary scoreboard that will launch you ever closer to your eternal reward or just make you feel good about yourself and all you've done. I can never seem to find many of those things to tack onto the scoreboard. Life's usually a series of small events, some I feel good about, some that wasted too many hours of my time, most that were just living the daily functions of life and taking care of this thing called family. I dare say this is how life is for most of us.

I did finally get recycling down this year. We don't have those convenient blue or green recycling cans that many communities have. But I discovered about a year ago this thing out here called the Blue Bag Recycling Program. If you live out this way I highly recommend you try it out if you haven't yet. You just get those blue recycling trash bags that you can get at the grocery store and separate your recyclables into the bags and put it all in your regular garbage can and they separate it all at the dump. Brent's skeptical that they actually do it but there was a picture on the internet with a big pile of the blue bags that had been removed at the dump. I didn't recycle any cans this year (baby steps) so maybe I'll add those in next year. You have to rinse things out so that's why I've resisted so far.

I started a blog (pretty obvious one here). I found out that I kind of like to write and that occasionally I don't completely suck at it. It's a little surprising that I've stuck with something for so many months. I'm hoping in the coming year that I can be a little more open in my blogging. Dare to say more of what I want to say. It's always been my desire to make this a forum for my thoughts and hear others thoughts too, along with the pictures and the happenings in our lives. I censored myself more than I really wanted to when it came to politics and other issues.

Speaking of politics... We elected Barack Obama as our next president! I still can't believe that in a month we will have a President Obama. I learned a lot from this election about just how difficult it can be for individuals to come together on varying political views. I think I may have even harmed a friendship or two as a result of the election. Not because I wouldn't shut up about my views or I was trying to change another persons mind. More I think because they didn't agree with my guy and when he won (oh the nerve of it all, allowing the other team to win for a change!) they were upset and blamed me in a way for bringing this terrible thing to pass. That part makes me sad. Hopefully time will heal wounds. Let me just say how grateful I am for friends who tolerate me and my contrary political views. :) Let me explain just a little about what Obama's win means to me and others. It's like this time years ago before Brent and I were married and we used to go running together after work in the mornings. We were running and talking at the same time about some issues involving our future together. I know, we should have just stuck with the running. Well the conversation didn't go well and we were having a disagreement about something important to me. Honestly, I can't remember all the details but I was upset and started crying. Crying and running do not go together because the crying makes you unable to breath. So I started gasping for air. I was hyperventilating and could have used a paper bag to breath into at that point. So I stopped running, stopped crying, and took some slow deep breaths and then I was able to breath again. It felt unbelievable to be able to breath normally again. That's how it feels. We've had an administration running our country that has basically told those who don't agree with their policies to sit down and shut up, we know what's best, you don't and we're not going to listen to you. I can breath again. I can have an opinion contrary to my government's once again and not be accused of being unpatriotic. Not be thought of as a bad American. I've always believed that when you disagree with your country's leaders it is your right and even responsibility to stand up and say something. To protest peacefully. That is what I believe our founding fathers intended. We don't need to rehash the reasons I disagree. The war, the Patriot Act, Guantanamo, etc., etc., etc. Those things have been debated ad nauseum. It doesn't mean I don't have great respect for our troops because I surely do. After all, I'm too much of a chicken to do what they do. They and their families sacrifice in the most amazing of ways. But I want to see change. I believe there is more than one way of doing things and if you're hitting your head against a wall hoping it will stop the pain and it's not working, then maybe you should stop hitting your head against the wall and take a new approach.

Another development late in this year is that I think I've got this exercise thing down again. I'm on day 33 of a 90 day workout program, working out six days a week. Finally, I'm remembering again how much I love working out!

Those are just a few notable things that I wanted to mention as this year nears it's end. What about next year? I have this weird, no reason behind it at all, belief that odd years are lucky for me so it could be a great year!

11 comments:

Kayleigh Mattison Hales said...

I seriously hope it is a great year for you. I think it's great to have goals. I'm just not one who likes to make them! I know it's important to write them down, so that's MY goal...to write down my other goals. Maybe I'll do that on my blog so I can find them and refer to them often.

Cindy said...

I should do that too. Like tracking my scripture study since it's such a difficult thing for me to stay consistent with. Hope your year is great too Kristen! It's certainly been fun getting to know family members better through the blogs! :)

Anonymous said...

I so feel that way, Cindy. I keep saying to people, "Wait until Obama takes over - things will be different - we have to be patient, his administration cannot clean up eight years of "ineptitude" (I really wanted to use another word)in a matter of weeks." I saw on the news today that 3 out of 4 people are anxious for Bush to be out of office. Now that is a legacy!!
Good luck on your goals - all very worthy ones!

Christy said...

i love reading your blog. thanks for posting your thoughts. i wish you the best in 2009 in everything you do. ( goals & all ) i hope i can accomplish some small or big things in the upcoming year.

Cindy said...

Thanks, Christy! Looks like you've definitely got another big year ahead of you with baby #5! :)

Ritsumei said...

Sounds like a good year for you... though I'm not so sure that the Obama administration is going to be so open about disagreement as you think. They've been pretty harsh on disagreement & pretty secretive during the campaign...

Not that I'm saying that Bush is wonderful. Cuz he's not. I'm just worried that a man who thinks that the Supreme Court didn't do enough to "move away from the essential constraints of the Constitution" (it's a pretty close paraphrase) in the de-segregation decisions of the Civil Rights movement is going to be a champion of smaller, constitutional government, which is what I'd like to see. Obama makes me more nervous for my rights, not less.

Still, it's always fun to support the winner, and I can't blame you one bit for enjoying that! Now, ya wanna talk him into removing some of the disadvantages that "3rd" parties run under so that someday I might be able to support a winner??

Cindy said...

Ritsumei,
I had to look that quote up but now I remember it. This is something that could be greatly debated along with the "socialistic" aspects of it but it would be way too lengthy in the comment section of my blog and you'd probably kick my butt because you study all of this more than I do. ;) But honestly, I'm not worried. (Says the girl who just admitted she hasn't thoroughly studied the issue.)
I do think you're right that it would be good to get away from the current two party system and have opportunities for other parties to hold office.

The Funky Bunch said...

Wow, that's awesome you're working out that much. I wish I had that discipline! Sounds like you had a good year. I can't believe it's already over. It really amazes me how time goes by so fast! Good luck with the new year...we could always use that!

Ritsumei said...

Well, truth to be told, this last election is when I started studying. I don't remember exactly what set me off onto this particular study cycle, but I've learned some really interesting things and some really scary things. For instance: the prophets have warned us against "apostatizing" from the Constitution. I called 2 of the state candidates we had. It was chilling: the lady that actually won the race had No. Idea. Whatsoever about the Constitution. If you're going to hold office you ought to read it!! But anyway, I'm not so sure at all that I'd "kick your butt" (LOL) because I'm so new to learning about this stuff that I'm just at the point of being stunned at how much I don't know. It's crazy. Why don't they teach about the Constitution in school???? More than just the historical aspects of how it came to be, why didn't any of my teachers ask us to write a paper about our opinions of the government as its laid out in there? Why was a vague bit on "checks & balances" all we got? It's an amazing document!

Cindy said...

Rits-
That's true. Even in the basic American history classes in college very little was covered concerning the constitution. In high school I had a humanities class where everyone had to read a different country's constitution. I had to read Iran's, which I found quite amusing as a seventeen year old. So at least I've read the Iranian constitution! Haha! I think I better make a goal to read it in the new year.

Alicia said...

Ok, so i know that you wrote about a lot more important and interesting things than recyling..but I have heard other people talk about the bags that you can get at the grocery and I can't find them!! Do tell me which isle to wonder around on please. :) I hate not recycling...and i hate that it's because I'm lazy!
Happy 2009!