Saturday, November 10, 2012

Only One Opinion

So I keep debating whether I should go here or not. In 2008 I was fired up and passionate about my political beliefs. Now, they are there but I haven't gone into them a lot because I've been there, done that a hundred times and I'm just tired of it now. I'm bored with explaining. But maybe it's time to give it a go one more time. This election has really rattled some people, to say the least. I think for the LDS people anyway, their conservative political beliefs were there (for conservative Mormons anyway) and on top of that was the shining hope of something special and unique in their eyes. Something that could have been a game changer. The within-hands-reach-possibility of a Mormon being president. I can imagine how exciting that could be. However, I didn't share that hope with them because I am not a conservative and I don't believe God finds us any more special that anyone else. That's just my feelings on it, maybe not yours.

So they were understandably saddened, disheartened, disappointed and, in some cases, horrified at the loss of Mitt Romney. Or , rather, the win of Barack Obama. I understand that. In 2000, I sat in disbelief and disappointment when George W. Bush became president. I was just coming into my realization that I leaned Democrat at the time and I wasn't in awe of Al Gore, but environmental concerns were on my mind. I still wonder where our fuel efficiency standards would be now if he had become president. Where our dependency on foreign fuel would be and how much alternative energy we would be using. then when GWB was re-elected, well after the fiasco of the Iraq war and the debacle over WMDs I was sorely disappointed. I admit I cried just a little. I hated that he was going to be president for another four years. So I get the pain conservatives are going through. On the other hand, those who are glued to Rush Limbaugh and Glenn Beck should probably take a step back and get some perspective. Rush Limbaugh is a man filled with hate. I don't know how anyone can say otherwise. Glenn Beck has a messiah complex. Sorry, but I really believe it is true.

So conservatives are in pain. I don't agree with it, of course. Mitt Romney is a swell guy and all, good family man, good at making wads of cash, nice hair. But he isn't what I wanted in a president. President Obama, on the other hand, he's not the antichrist. He is really no more liberal than Bill Clinton was. To me he seems like a good person and I trust him more with the reigns than I trusted Mitt Romney. All of this is really just one person's opinion, so don't worry about it too much. I know you're not worried about it. I mean the only reason I'm even writing this is because my blog doesn't get much traffic these days. I kind of like that. I know there are a couple of readers here and there but not enough for my blog to actually make a stir. So I can write this without getting all confrontational.

Anyway, now I'm going to discuss why I voted for President Obama. What is important to me? Not enough has been done to protect the environment. It is a big concern to me because I want a nice home for my children when they grow up. Environmental issues are important to me. Reducing greenhouse emissions is important to me. Finding clean, alternatives to coal and oil is important to me. I can't say Obama has done a ton on this front but a little is happening. Fuel efficiency standards have been raised. Alternative energy sources are getting more attention. It's not enough but it's something. The truth is, democrats have the record for supporting environmental issues and republicans don't so much. So I'm hopeful more will be done this term.

I feel safer with Obama as president. Romney did not seem very good with foreign policy to me. He seemed a little too keen on the idea of jumping into another war. The few examples of him dealing with diplomatic matters did not seem to go well. I trust Obama more to be diplomatic and to work to find peace without war. It's a good thing that our reputation as a respected country has gone up with Obama as president.

I believe in a social safety net. No, I am not on welfare. I have never used any of the traditional social programs to help with my personal needs. Things like welfare, food stamps, WIC,  and government sponsored student loans. I've never used any of them but I'm glad they have been there for those who need them. Someday my kids will be grown and the truth is I can't afford to pay for much of their college education. Scholarships would be welcomed of course, but if they don't happen or don't happen enough, I still want my kids to get an education. I believe they have a right to an education and a low interest rate loan would be welcomed. It's not my job to judge those who have come on hard times. I believe most who have come on hard times did not do this out of laziness. Life is hard and sucks sometimes and there is a heck of a lot of difference between the likelihood of success for someone who is born in a stable, upper middle class family and someone born to a single mom who is doing drugs and is absent a lot of the time because of work or neglect or whatever. I've seen children who come from homes like this. They become adults and it is like they are at the starting line of a race with a heavy weight strapped to their shoulders. It is so much harder for them to get it together and to figure out how to be adults, how to take care of themselves, and sometimes, how to keep from dragging other little ones into the messiness of their lives. Sometimes they fail and they need help getting back up. Sometimes the only source of support they have is the overworked, public school teacher who takes times to help them as children. That is just one example of hardship. There are so many more out there and not enough charities and kindhearted people out there to help those in need.

I've read about how the government shouldn't help because this takes away the opportunity for others to serve. Okay, if I am homeless and disease ridden, it is not my job to be a vessel for your good deed points. Charity and kindness are wonderful, important things, but people aren't hurting just so you can feel good about yourself. (Sorry, but that point really sticks in my side a little.) To me that just makes it sound as if someone is suffering just so another can get the reward of serving them. We need charity, but we also need government safety nets to help when there is not enough. People DO die because they don't have healthcare. They DO lose their homes because of the hardship of medical bills. Things aren't ever going to be perfect, but the government can help. The government is THE PEOPLE after all.

So, abortion. Not my favorite subject. I hate abortion and wish it didn't exist. But I cannot tell a woman who is deciding between her own life and an embryo what she should do. I've never been in that position so I can't make a judgement on that. I can't tell the rape victim what to do if she should become pregnant. This is what I do believe: the best way to prevent abortions is to keep unwanted pregnancies from happening in the first place. It's all fine and good to say, well they shouldn't have had sex. But you know what, they are going to have sex (speaking in general terms here) and I'd rather they had education and birth control than an innocent child be aborted or be born to a woman who has no safety net. Especially when those who oppose abortion also oppose helping that child after he or she is born. Not to mention that birth control also prevents unwanted pregnancies in impoverished families headed by a husband and a wife. It isn't just people having sex out of wedlock. Here's a study too: http://thinkprogress.org/health/2012/10/05/966121/obamacare-birth-control-abortion/ .

Oh yeah, the economy. It's improving a little here and there. It needs to improve more, of course. I believe the president has done some good and tried to do more but has been blocked by congress all along the way (the jobs act). People say the housing market will never get back to where it was. Well I don't believe house prices were ever supposed to be as high as they were. A person who would buy my house in my neighborhood shouldn't have to pay $250,000 for my house. My house might have sold for that much in 2005 or somewhere around that. That is nearly $100,000 more than what we paid for it four years earlier. Did wages go up enough to justify this? No. House prices never should have been as high as they were, there wasn't enough money out there to make the payments to support this.

So, there you go. My beliefs as a person who believes in God and Jesus Christ. My spiritual beliefs do inform my views. I'm not looking to change any minds. These are just my views. To be honest, I'd be surprised if anyone actually made it through reading this whole thing.

Oh, and here is a good blog post that deals with the worries about the president bringing on the apocalypse and all of that fun stuff: http://www.feministmormonhousewives.org/2012/11/sorry-to-kill-your-apocalyptic-election-buzz/

Monday, November 5, 2012

Friday, November 2, 2012

A new plan, again.

Well, it's time for another go at dropping a few pounds. Yeah, I know, I try and it works out for a while and then I give up and go back to my evil ways. Oh well, keep trying, right? (Incidentally, I think my writing and grammar have gone way down hill as of late.) So what is my plan this time? I've got this workout calendar in the family room where I exercise. I put an "X" through each day I workout and write down what I did. Doing this I am often able to get in five or more workouts per week. Sure, sometimes only two or three, but frequently more. Seeing all the Xes really encourages me to get those workouts in. (Is that how you spell the plural of X? I dunno.) I thought maybe the same could apply to eating healthy. So I made another calendar, this one just for eating good. I put an "X" on each day I eat healthy, which mainly mean no junk food. Today will be day five.
Now, I have no plans to live in a state of complete denial but hopefully this will help me rack up a bunch of good days and make a good habit. I'm already planning a few cheat days: election party on Tuesday, Brent's birthday a few days later, then Thanksgiving is coming up, of course. My plan is to weigh in every ten "good" days. Starting day was Monday (I think) and I weighed in at 175 lbs. Don't mock me. I'm 5'9" so it could be better but I'm not exactly outrageously huge or anything. So, here goes again.

Starting weight: 10/29/12-175 lbs